You are correct … women get angry when I try to explain why men seek younger women. I am in my 40s but just had to comment at what a incredible turn off you are you sound disgusting and very unappealing. Any woman any age with any self respect would be repulsed by you. You must have some idea that you are not a catch for anyone. ” I have nothing against sex” is so much different from actually craving it … your statement makes it very clear … but we men already knew that so why we desire younger women. I read your last couple of replies and agree with you about sticking to your values.

I want to find a women who is like minded, I find attractive and will be my best friend. There is some that are like minded, but there is a lot of very large women and I will not date them. There is women at the bar who are attractive, but they drink all the time and act like they are still in high school, no thx. A women in her 50s should be looking for partners in their 60s. Majority of men in their 50s are more than capable of starting a family, having kids etc. Even if they’re not directly looking for it, they want to have that option, so a woman in her 50s is a no-go.

Plus, I needed to process everything and there was A LOT! Had hired a private investigator, everything what I thought to be true was not. Realized what a Covert Narcissist was – no joke, certifiable. Nevertheless, dated a guy that I once dated when I was in my 20’s.

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” After our “moment of truth” he asked me not judge him based on his age, I feel like I keep fighting this battle in my head that I am too old for him. We play fight together, go to dinner we have genuine fun no matter what we do. I got out of a terrible 5 year relationship with a man who is my age and he treated me like crap! My boyfriend even says that he is more mature then most men in their 30’s and 40’s and because of his life experiences…he’s right!! I’m going to keep moving forward and see where this leads.

I went two years without sex at the end of my marriage and yes it took awhile to get things going again. However, I had a very patient partner with whom I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life and we turned my lack of performance into an opportunity to grow closer. I learned how to be a better kisser for example.

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Keep an open mind and be open to discussing the relationship with the people you care about. Remember why you are invested in your partner, what you like about them, and how they make you happy. Be sure to communicate this to your partner and your respective audience (, family members, etc.). The confidence this creates will serve as protection under lingering eyes in public arenas.

The details of my divorce aren’t really important. We got married, we had kids, we grew apart. My boyfriend and I have a 6 year age gap, and it works really well- I am also a uni student! Go for it, as long as you are both happy that’s all that matters.

Most women start gaining weight, and then want to guilt or shame you for wanting to be fit healthy and be with someone fit and healthy. I find it easier to strike a conversation with an attractive woman in her 30’s and 40’s. I take them to expensive restaurants, concerts etc. We talk freely without expectations as I am not interested in a serious relationship with someone in that age group. They know that and appreciate the company.

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He was a divorced father of two grown-up kids, both of them are younger than me. He and I dated for only two months and then got married after that. Some people thought I was looking for a sugar daddy, but that’s not true. He treats me so well, and makes love to me so passionately. We are still married, I’m now 32 and he’s 63.

This young man pursued me on a dating website but I’d never give him a chance. But the more we talked I realized he has an old soul. We love the same music, movies, food, dog lovers. He lets me be who I am, I’ve never been as comfortable and felt safe as I do with him. On our 1st date he asked me if he could kiss me..

I figured I was still young enough, had a great job, was fit, healthy, not bad looking and might be able to find someone. I focussed mainly on the profiles of the women on the sites and was only really interested in women from their late thirties through to mid to late forties. I didn’t want someone who wanted more children, and I also didn’t want someone who only wanted me for my money or job status.

People are placed in our life paths for a reason. It might be what we need at that particular time in our lives? I think if both parties are aware of what issues could arise from any and difference and if their is compatibility and desire for each other, what’s the harm? If it feels good and neither is committing adultery, why not see where the desires of Life takes you. If someone fills your heart with joy, what could be the harm. He was the good looking guy in his profile pictures.